Spoofee12, you are not a 'bother'. I think a lot of the issues here are not that anyone is being a 'bother' but that their behavior and lack of understanding (due to one's age and maturity level) is quite disturbing as they are putting themselves in harm's way. It's not because anyone 'doesn't like someone', it's that as adults, we need to be responsible for others when they are unable to be responsible for themselves and children. (Especially when the child is need of some serious help.)
As a parent, I try my darnedest to not let my child be vulnerable to predators but I can't be every where all the time and if my child were to be in danger, I'd sure appreciate a responsible adult to step in before my child gets hurt or worse. Children sometimes can't comprehend how vulnerable they are to the sometimes vicious world they are in, even if they think they can....we need to look out after each other and protect children, yes, even from themselves.
There are also boundaries that need to be set up for children and adults. Not every conversation or topic is appropriate in every venue. Some of the topics that were recently brought up were not appropriate for this forum and I think there were many people who were very uncomfortable with it. There's a time and place for everything, being mature means knowing when and where.
If nothing else, please consider this a 'learning experience' and protect yourself.
JMHO I'm taking off the "Mom" shoes now....