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Just remember, you are often judged by the company you keep. Whether you deserve the 'label' or not.
 
AARRGGHH!!!!! I am so tired of being the only person in this office that gives a sh!t !!!!
 
shani said:
i know, im careful when im with them.
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Oh Shani......a good friend is a person that you DO NOT have to be careful around. They are good people who will encourage you to succeed, not to balk against society and its laws for kicks. Friends are happy for your success, and, will have the courage and compassion to point your flaws, and, hold you up during times of failure. Please try not to look for "rushes" or attention from these people, you have so much more to offer than that. Like Squid said, when the chips are down, those kinds of personalities will leave you standing alone. A good friend will respect you enough to always be there to hold your hand, and, often not have to say a word while doing so. Shani, you have many gifts and talents, please, don't waste them on people or life events that don't deserve them. Anyone young lady who wants to grow daisies outside of her window deserves a beautiful garden of friends.....not a bunch of weeds to choke her. Please please, be careful and stay safe. :hug:
 
spoofee12 said:
Did I miss something? Well I got my report card and got A's and B's. WOO-HOO!
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You did?!?!?! Hey, they gave you MY GRADES!!!!!! ;) :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: Whahoo congrats on your hard work and efforts! Sending lots of proud smiles for your accomplishments your way! Keep up the good work! :)
 
i know, they are the only people who dont care if i fail a test and don't give me s*** for doing something bad.
 
precocious said:
Just remember, you are often judged by the company you keep. Whether you deserve the 'label' or not.
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Exactly what I was going to say and it is a hard lesson to learn, plus it can be hard to overcome that label once you move on from that "group"

Good luck with everything Shani
 
shani said:
i know, they are the only people who dont care if i fail a test and don't give me s*** for doing something bad.
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That should tell you something right there.....what kind of 'friend' doesn't care if your fail? What kind of 'friend' doesn't give you grief when you don't do the right thing? I think you need to reconsider those you call your 'friends' or learn to duck pretty quick when their other 'friends' decide to do a drive by shooting, because they are not going to take the bullet for you, they will hide behind you and leave you hanging.
 
At the risk of sounding like my mother........................when my brother was in junior high he went to the school play yard one Saturday with his friends. His "friends" starting throwing stones at the school - my brother went to the basketball court to shoot hoops. His friends aim was off and they broke several windows at the school. All of them got in trouble and had to pay for the windows - including my brother - because he was there with them. Guilty by association.

Every decision that you make Shani - can effect you for the rest of your life. Make good choices! :hug:
 
but you dont understand having all these people, making me feel guilty for doing this and making fun of me for doing that. i dont want my friends to care that much, they make me feel bad and worried and i hate that feeling. i don'thang out with them on a regular basis, just after school and during school. you make it sound like they are bad people. you need to know them better.
 
Shani - it's called peer pressure. If someone makes you feel guilty about doing things you like to do, then they aren't really your friends. As Squid said earlier when push comes to shove they will be gone. No, we don't know your friends, only what you tell of them and if they are making fun of you are they really your friends?
 
shani said:
but you dont understand having all these people, making me feel guilty for doing this and making fun of me for doing that. i dont want my friends to care that much, they make me feel bad and worried and i hate that feeling. i don'thang out with them on a regular basis, just after school and during school. you make it sound like they are bad people. you need to know them better.
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Shani, I wasn't born yesterday and I do not care to know 'those' kind of people anymore. I've been around the block, your feelings aren't unique, you need 'real' friends......surround yourself with quality people who care about you.

I repeat, you don't get arrested for doing the right thing.
 
PugGirl, shani means that she doesnt want to be with people who make her feel bad for getting detention, or make fun of her for getting a lousy grade; so she hangs out with people who arent that worried about it.

Besides, shes still pretty young. She still has some growing up to do (no offense ;)). She'll catch on. The thing is we have the benefit of hindsight, when people told us these exact things we didnt pay attention either (or at least I didnt). And I turned out just fine.

You'll figure it out, Shani. Youre a bright girl. Just be on your toes. No one is trying to hurt your feelings or bad mouth your friends just to be malicious. Its all meant in the most positive way, we dont want anything to happen to you.
 
LiveSquid said:
PugGirl, shani means that she doesnt want to be with people who make her feel bad for getting detention, or make fun of her for getting a lousy grade; so she hangs out with people who arent that worried about it.
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OK.. thanks for clearing that up for me.

LiveSquid said:
Besides, shes still pretty young. She still has some growing up to do. She'll catch on. The thing is we have the benefit of hindsight, when people told us these exact things we didnt pay attention either (or at least I didnt).
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You're right .. we didn't listen either and experience is the best teacher.


LiveSquid said:
You'll figure it out, Shani. Youre a bright girl. Just be on your toes. No one is trying to hurt your feelings or bad m outh your friends just to be maliscious. Its all meant in the most positive way, we dont want anything to happen to you.
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ditto!!
 
LiveSquid said:
PugGirl, shani means that she doesnt want to be with people who make her feel bad for getting detention, or make fun of her for getting a lousy grade; so she hangs out with people who arent that worried about it.

Besides, shes still pretty young. She still has some growing up to do (no offense ;)). She'll catch on. The thing is we have the benefit of hindsight, when people told us these exact things we didnt pay attention either (or at least I didnt). And I turned out just fine.

You'll figure it out, Shani. Youre a bright girl. Just be on your toes. No one is trying to hurt your feelings or bad mouth your friends just to be malicious. Its all meant in the most positive way, we dont want anything to happen to you.
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you are my new hero. thats pretty much what i wanted people to see.
 
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