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Cedar said:
My brother has a friend and Music reminds me of him, in the end he bought a hooker in Reno when he turned 25 after he figured out Snow White wasn't waiting for him.
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Oops! Well, I'm sure glad my husband didn't mind waiting an extra year for me - he was 26 when we met and got married. Ah well, it worked for us. :)
 
Kage_'sCupotea said:
Oops! Well, I'm sure glad my husband didn't mind waiting an extra year for me - he was 26 when we met and got married. Ah well, it worked for us. :)
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You took that wrong Your husband knew he had found someone this guy had such the fantasy women in his head no one would date him.
 
Cedar said:
You took that wrong Your husband knew he had found someone this guy had such the fantasy women in his head no one would date him.
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Ahhh, I gotcha. I wasn't offended by any means, don't worry. I just meant that he waited an extra year. :) I don't think either my husband nor I had a "fantasy" person in our minds (looks, image, etc.), but more of a "soulmate" idea. The perfect complement to one another. It isn't always perfect, but it is amazing. I'm just glad I didn't listen to the teen/women's magazines that said that he wasn't out there waiting for me, that there is no Superman. My guy may not have super powers like Superman, but he sure has super-human ways of knowing how to make me smile, swoon, and feel better. Yeah, he's my Superman - only those who know everything we've been through can understand that, though. :)
 
Kage_'sCupotea said:
...These men who truly love and appreciate women are not "girly-men", rather, they are real men, who take the time to understand and love their soulmates. It's a matter of respect. The truth is, if you respect a woman, you'll never regret it.
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You know, you'd make a great wife...um, oh yeah, you are. :D well, Kage's got a good girl. ;)
 
Capt. Nemo said:
You know, you'd make a great wife...um, oh yeah, you are. :D well, Kage's got a good girl. ;)
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Awww, thanks! :o :) There are still a few of us out there, as there still are a few good guys. Just wish it wasn't such a rare thing.
 
Cedar said:
...this guy had such the fantasy women in his head no one would date him.
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O, ok, and just WHERE do you think he got his ideas of the perfect, airbrushed woman?
 
Kage_'sCupotea said:
I'm just glad I didn't listen to the teen/women's magazines that said that he wasn't out there waiting for me
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I gave up and moved away said I was going to be single for a while then i went back home to Tahoe for vacation to visit family and my old boss took me for a beer to catch up and he introduced me to Fred. We stayed up all night went to the lake for sunrise, then went for coffee. He didn't care I didn't live there anymore. So the next day as luck would have it I bumped into someone and he asked me to come run his new office, i took the job so I could see where Fred and I would go. I took the job drove to Palm Springs picked up my stuff came back and the rest is history.

Sometimes when your not looking a good one comes along.
 
Capt. Nemo said:
O, ok, and just WHERE do you think he got his ideas of the perfect, airbrushed woman?
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his mother
 
Cedar said:
I gave up and moved away said I was going to be single for a while then i went back home to Tahoe for vacation to visit family and my old boss took me for a beer to catch up and he introduced me to Fred. We stayed up all night went to the lake for sunrise, then went for coffee. He didn't care I didn't live there anymore. So the next day as luck would have it I bumped into someone and he asked me to come run his new office, i took the job so I could see where Fred and I would go. I took the job drove to Palm Springs picked up my stuff came back and the rest is history.

Sometimes when your not looking a good one comes along.
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You sound like me. I also gave up and was happy being single, and just when I became content with that, he came along. :)

Sorry if others are offended at the way this went a little "off-topic," although it really isn't very "off-topic" after all.
 
That's ok, I'm sure the mod's are gonna just delete all this.
 
If you want to see a real relationship come over to my house, my guy and I have good and bad times. More good then bad we still enjoy each other and when I was in the hospital and could not walk on my own for a year he stayed by my side quit his job to stay home and take care of me. That is real not fairy tales.
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You found your knight, my point exactly.

I'm sorry, I tend to write in a rather flowery manner, comes from reading all that old english growing up :) I also tend to speak rather "over-the-top" in order to make my points.

Real love is so much more than flowers, just as you say. Real love comes out when (as Kages Cup and you have said) there are ups and downs. Real love occurs when someone is unloveable. When you love someone who is loveable, what's the big deal? So you've done what anybody else could do. But when you love someone when they aren't lovely, when they're being 'only human' (which I am so often:), when they make mistakes or when something happens and they can't give back what you're giving to them, that is worthwhile, that is where the real "Love Story" happens. Much like you and Kages Cup have been relating.

Yes I did get these ideas from my Mother, and my Father. They've been married over 25 years now and still going strong. I can remember them arguing, discussing, coming out of their room with tears in their eyes, but that isn't where it ended. It continues because I saw them giving and forgiving, my dad helping my mom when she broke her arm while roller-skating a couple years ago, "kiss-and-making-up" after the arguments, that is what shaped me.

And in the circles I run in, admittedly a bit more conservative than most of the rest of the world for now, I see girls who appreciate the door being opened by true gentlemen. Girls who wait in the car for us to open their doors. Girls fast becoming young women who will then become women, wives and mothers who will shape the next generation. Truly the mother has the harder task, the greater responsibility in the shaping of the future. But she also has the greater joy, the richer hope.

And yes, I've found a cinderella who appreciates me as much as I appreciate her. And in the give and take of real life we'll grow past the 'puppy-love' and into the deep, rich joy of real love. Love that has scars and bruises, but because it has seen dark, the light shines for it ever brighter.

After all, are we not relative beings? We feel warmth because we feel cold, and vice versa. We know despair because we know hope. We know love because we know what love isn't.
 
Music you are too much, have to say thanks you have made Fred and I laugh all morning with those "over-the-top points". I hope you and your girl will be very happy, I may sound harsh but when you are placed on pedistal or you place someone else it's a long fail is all I'm saying.
 
As long as you're holding them up in admiration, there's no need for them to fall.
The only reason they'd fall is when you look away & stop honoring them- & that'd be your fault...
 
Capt. Nemo said:
That's ok, I'm sure the mod's are gonna just delete all this.
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If they do, it'd only be fair to delete all the comments, and just leave the offer available. In any case, have a great weekend, everyone! :)
 
Ditto Nemo

I must admit as I read your comments, Cedar, I was thinking of the phrase I read in some book somewhere "Those who fly highest fall the farthest." But then I read Nemo's bit and I like it better.

Best of luck to y'all and keep the deals coming.

btw, this just struck me as being a bit odd: From what I gather, Cedar and Kage are married women. From what I know (which is a bit more solid here) Nemo and I are just to single guys barely into our twenties. Quite the juxtaposition, and we talked the guys who posted the deal in the first place into the ether.
 
I'm not married, Kage'sCup is married and we are both in our twenties.
I should add Fred has been trying for about a year to stick that damn ring on my finger LOL
 
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wow --- um..

cool FHM! thanks!

*laughs nervously*
 
One late comment... When I was a teen (1970's), someone showing their crotch naked was hard core porn. I suppose now perhaps soft core is full fledged intercourse and hard core is group sex or gay sex or something. Sorry if I'm behind the times. My point is if it shows naked breasts here and there, and glamorizes women who pretend to be pre or post orgasmic, then its porn enough to keep out of my house.

I do have a free sub to esquire, and frankly it has too many airbrushed women in it for me, but I keep it around because it has thought provoking articles. So far my wife has not complained, but if it bugs her, its outta here.
 
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National Geographic must be considered hard-core porn becasue it actually shows naked breasts, none that I actually would want to see anyways. And to think my son's school lets him read that!
 
Choochoojr said:
National Geographic must be considered hard-core porn becasue it actually shows naked breasts, none that I actually would want to see anyways. And to think my son's school lets him read that!
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Choo have I ever told you I love you, that post right there was perfect could have stopped all this today.

Way off topic
 
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