OK, it appears that I accidentally deleted one message from Spice. I have undeleted it and I apologize for the confusion. There was one other message from another member that was deleted, but that was done by the member and not a mod. I have to admit since Spoofee changed the forums, the layout of our mod panel for visitor messages is all jumbled together. Each message used to have something to separate it before but now it is one big blur. I have gone back several days and don't see any other messages, but if you can point out a timeframe I can check into any other deleted messages.
P.S. If there are 'unapproved' messages showing in your wall, there is a very huge possibility that it is from a spammer. They are hitting the walls about every 20 minutes or so.