Go to the website from OP's post & try to log in with the user name & password you chose for that site. I read to try that on another forum, that's how some were finding out they got in before the email even showed up.
Just received this by email:
"Thank you so much for applying to host a COFFEE-MATE Café Party on FREE FLAVOR FRIDAY. We appreciate your interest and enthusiasm and wish that we had enough party kits to give to all of our fans. Unfortunately, there were limited amounts, and we are unable to provide you with one at this time."
Bummer.
Received my kit today, very nice but not nearly enough art supplies for 16 people to interact with at once. Also, the white envelope on top of everything inside the box was empty and there was a single free Coffee-Mate liquid or dry coupon sitting beside it.