I can't help but think about the things I went without because my children needs came first. With that in mind, I try to help supply necessary things for the grand:baby: like car-seat, clothes, toys etc so my son & dil have a little extra money to get themselves a few things, go out to dinner or go do something fun as a family. I feel bad that they live so far away from family & friends. They don't have a local support system to turn to or to get a break. They are 24/7 parents....and they are good parents! I can see throught the baby that he is shown much love. I am very proud of their parenting.