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Welll we can pick on her...
we can ignore her..
Or maybe we can actually try to help her out????

"I can do all things through him who gives me strength" Philippians 4: 11b
 
snibble said:
Welll we can pick on her...
we can ignore her..
Or maybe we can actually try to help her out????

"I can do all things through him who gives me strength" Philippians 4: 11b
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You can only shoot yourself in the foot so many times.....sometimes the best thing to do is let them learn for themselves.:yo:

Good luck.
 
shani said:
i did cry but not in school. and this isn't about my friends. its the fact that they didn't find the guy. there wasnt any justice. they said if they catch the guy we may be able to file a harrasment charge. my friends ran because they didnt want to get cought on film if we were at the police station those friends would of stuck up for me. so get your facts straight before you judge them. filming us is not what you should do. it scared me out of my mind and it was terrible expirience to go through. as well as the fact that we weren't on his property whatsoever. read....jeez.
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Shani by starting a thread - it's an open invitation for opinions. Most of us here are parents so that is the point of view that we are giving. You are focused on the details and emotions of this one particular situation - we as parents see the bigger picture - the potential of things that can happen.

Let me share another story: One day my friend and I were at the mall - we were about 14 or 15. We walked from the mall to her Mom's work - I was spending the night with her. When I told my Mom she FREAKED out. And I was like "What is the big deal?" Looking back I see the big deal now....I didnt see the potentials of the danger I put myself in.

As a young lady, you have to start making smart choices about everything. Now-a-days you just never know what could happen.
 
thank you for not jumping on me like some other people.
 
precocious said:
You can only shoot yourself in the foot so many times.....sometimes the best thing to do is let them learn for themselves.:yo:

Good luck.
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How is taking 5 minutes to give somebody advice on a discussion board like shooting yourself in the foot?
 
pinkflutterbys said:
How is taking 5 minutes to give somebody advice on a discussion board like shooting yourself in the foot?
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When it's more than 5 minutes and it's done repeatedly (you are new here, this is not new*) and not only is it not appreciated, you are grossly disrespected for it. That's how.

No good deed goes unpunished.:rolleyes:

Plus, you would not know that there were many pm's not made public as well. You are judging this on one thread, not the entire picture.

Also by defending the issue, it encourages the issue of more 'drama'. This is not a 'pre-teen help site', that's a different site.

If you choose to become involved in the 'drama', be my guest, but do not judge me for I will then have to address that further. No need to make this more of an issue than it needs to be.

I believe she recently turned 12 years old, she is a very young immature minor. I do not believe Spoofee's site was intended for that type of forum. Others share this opinion as well.

Good luck.

*Sorry - you are not new here (my error). You are 'new' to the sagas of Shani.*
 
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sampler said:
come on you guys are picking on a teenager. give her a break and just ignore what she says if it bothers you
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I agree.

Nobody is forced to continue a discussion or even answer a pm. If you don't want somebody sending you pm's, just ignore them.



Sure, judging people is a big issue, but so is being mean to a kid when given the opportunity to set an example of a mature adult.
 
pinkflutterbys said:
I agree.

Nobody is forced to continue a discussion or even answer a pm. If you don't want somebody sending you pm's, just ignore them.



Sure, judging people is a big issue, but so is being mean to a kid when given the opportunity to set an example of a mature adult.
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Just curious...do you have children?

If this were my child and I was so oblivious (giving the benefit of the doubt), I would want them to send her back to me or an appropriate place for help. Obviously she needs it and she isn't open to it here.

We may all be well in meaning...but who isn't and is pm'ing her? Is this what you would want for your daughter (child)?

P.S. Please be mean to all my children and refer them back to me. Do not solicit them, brainwash them, or have them hoodwinked to meet you so you may abduct them, abuse them or kill them! Should I be stupid enough to put a computer in their room so they may 'converse' at all wee hours and start a 'myspace' and/or 'xanga' and inform the world where to find them/her/him, how vulnerable they/her/him are and when they can come and snatch them/her/him......please...be the mature adult and send them back to me or a place where they can get real help. Please don't entertain them for the predators.

Thanking you in advance. Preco :05:
 
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I can't believe this thread is still going after Shani's been banned. :doh:
 
But what if Shani starts another file?
 
I guess that is up to her. We can ban by IP address too.
 
Wait!!! Shani got banned!!??? What did she do, send a nasty pm to someone??..:convinced:
 
Hmmm....I didn't know she was banned either!
 
If I tell you then I have to kill, er ban, you too.
 
precocious said:
Just curious...do you have children?

If this were my child and I was so oblivious (giving the benefit of the doubt), I would want them to send her back to me or an appropriate place for help. Obviously she needs it and she isn't open to it here.
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No, I don't have kids, but I do teach high school so I spend about 6 hours a day with about 75 teens and on the weekends I help with the middle school youth group at my church. I've taught for 3 years and helped with the youth group for 8 years. Last year I coached the dance team at school, and this year I am the faculty advisor for the Key Club, a student club that does community service projects. I know a lot about how teens and young teens function at this point. Are your children teenagers?

She already said she'd told teachers and her parents. She has already spoken to appropriate people for help. If she hadn't mentioned that, I would have told her to talk to appropriate people. I'm not a complete fool.





So, has she really been banned? Why?
 
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pinkflutterbys said:
No, I don't have kids, but I do teach high school so I spend about 6 hours a day with about 75 teens and on the weekends I help with the middle school youth group at my church. I've taught for 3 years and helped with the youth group for 8 years. Last year I coached the dance team at school, and this year I am the faculty advisor for the Key Club, a student club that does community service projects. I know a lot about how teens and young teens function at this point. Are your children teenagers?

She already said she'd told teachers and her parents. She has already spoken to appropriate people for help. If she hadn't mentioned that, I would have told her to talk to appropriate people. I'm not a complete fool.





So, has she really been banned? Why?
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I don't to be mean but EVERYTHING changes when you have kids.

As for shani being banned.. if I don't mistake she said she doesn't care if she's gonna be banned. And I don't think I'll have to remind you about the "stupid quizes".
do you notice that aboard full of helpful topics became the subjuct of stupid quizzes and games?
i used to love spoofee and now its just no use.
there are still some things but evrytime i look theres just...nothing.
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