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eabu said:
my initial comments are regarding the general idea of jealousy in a relationship and not made directly at jl

jl, your situation is a matter of trust. youve stated that you are faithful and that is a good foundation. now, you have to allow her to trust you, and that requires actions on your part to make her trust you. also, she needs to learn a little more about your activity. share with her what you do online, explain to her what the meaning of forums, threads, internet deals, etc. she likes shopping at a mall, you like shopping online. a little education goes a long way in this particular matter. also, do NOT ever ignore your significant if they are talking to you and you are on the internet, its just as bad as ignoring someone while they are talking to you for any other reason. be able to just completely and immediately stop and listen, or walk away from the computer when you are spoken to or needed. never allow your significant other to think your activity on the internet is more important than her. to some degree, you have to stand your ground too, this is your hobby and its not going to drastically change in the future, and she needs to understand that before committing herself. also, having a little jealousy in a young relationship is healthy (its part of "the game" of courting) but do not go overboard, take some pride knowing that you have attributes that she is addicted to, but you have to be conscious about your actions to nurture trust.
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:claps: :claps: :claps: :claps: Bravo! It's nice to hear a guy with some true wisdom. :bigok:
 
Question for the women:
What does a romatic night or date mean to you?
 
jl, I wasn't referring to you either. Like Faerie said past relationships can be huge in affecting a present relationship. Hope all was well when she came home from her shopping trip!:)
 
spazntwitch said:
Question for the women:
What does a romatic night or date mean to you?
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All of your attention on me.

I think for different women, the activities are going to be different, but the defining concept is the same. Personally I'd prefer a nice dinner, good conversation, some good wine, some dancing, a romantic moonlit stroll afterwards... BTW: a romantic night/date doesn't always have to end up in bed. But if you play your cards right, it just might...

The best date that my husband took me on was to a Harry Connick, Jr. concert. Now that doesn't sound like much until I ad that he's my absolute favorite artist and that my husband rented a limo and he brought champagne and Godiva chocolate covered strawberries too. All my favorite things. We had time to relax & talk in the limo, etc. It was great.
 
That sounded awesome Tigger.

Why do guys think farts are soo funny?
 
LOL i don't know what those are.. please define them :p
 
1. cup of soup

make your hand into a cup shape and fart into it. then pulling your hand out of your pants and throwing it into your buddy's face.

example: i gave Matt a cup of soup.


2. fart grenade

Farting in ones hand while keeping it contained and putting it in someones face.

example: Andy's fart grenade made Josh pass out

For the lovely people who don't know. ;)
 
callmeCrazyButt said:
1. cup of soup

make your hand into a cup shape and fart into it. then pulling your hand out of your pants and throwing it into your buddy's face.

example: i gave Matt a cup of soup.


2. fart grenade

Farting in ones hand while keeping it contained and putting it in someones face.

example: Andy's fart grenade made Josh pass out

For the lovely people who don't know. ;)
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I bet you know more about farts than most, if not all men. :eek: :confused: ;) ;)

BTW I never heard of either of those things, but thanks for the ideas. :tongue:
 
Big Daddy said:
I bet you know more about farts than most, if not all men. :eek: :confused: ;) ;)

BTW I never heard of either of those things, but thanks for the ideas. :tongue:
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:eek: :confused: Unfortunately I was hit by quite a few last night. My brothers are soo immature. :28: :confused: My one brother likes to call it New England Clam Chowder...gross
So who do you plan on bombing...people at work or your gorgeous kids? FYI if you do it right you could cause some temporary neurological damage. ;)

*Did anyone know you are limited to only 10 smilies here? Just found out.*
 
We know them as 'buttercups'. Have you heard of 'blue darts'?

And the reason that men laugh at farts is simple things for simple minds.
 
Never heard of "Blue darts". What are they? I need to know so I know more about farts then most, if not all men. ;)
 
lol I keep getting one of my brothers to do it but they wont. I have yet to see it done.
 
I dont think farts are funny.
 
Okay, this may just be mine, but why do men like to eat standing up at the counter? Wouldn't the meal be more enjoyable at the TABLE ? It's really not all that far away from the frig.
 
Heidi Kickhouse said:
Okay, this may just be mine, but why do men like to eat standing up at the counter? Wouldn't the meal be more enjoyable at the TABLE ? It's really not all that far away from the frig.
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Or they will stand over the sink. LOL
 
Faerieglamour said:
Or they will stand over the sink. LOL
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Would you prefer us to eat over the floor and get crumbs and such every where? Atleast over the sink or counter the crumbs do not get on the floor. :doh: :convinced:
 
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