I honestly am trying to let my daughter-in-law make all of the decisions for her son and not let be one of those grandma's that take over and over-rule the parents. I also make her do the majority of the work for him, except baths - that is my department, lol and I make dinner. We haven't had to do laundry yet but I have a separate laundry basket for the baby's belongings. I probably will help do his laundry. I really want to help make things easier for by giving her breaks because for 13 months she had no friends or family helping out it was just her and my son with the baby. DIL is taking on-line classes so today I took the :baby: to visit his great-grandmother so she could do school work and relax for a couple hours. Once she starts to work I will babysit too.